Dating anywhere in the world that is not your home country, you are bound to find some cultural differences and experience culture shock. Depending on where you come from, Chinese culture is probably very different to what you are used to. Or, indeed, other expats living in China from different countries other than your own.
Chinese dating is just as confusing, and wonderful, as any other type of dating. For Westerners, a willingness to learn about Chinese culture can make an interracial or international relationship stronger. For Chinese individuals who want to meet others from the same ethnic background, internet dating sites can help.
When I first started working in China, many of my trainees suggested I date a Chinese man. According to them, he would help with the language barrier, introduce me to amazing Chinese food, and help me find my way around China much quicker. They were all quick to suggest or knew an eligible candidate.
In the world that is getting smaller thru technology and the internet, our way of life has changed in leaps and bounds. How we do things, from our everyday tasks to even something as hard as finding a home can all be done with a push of a button. Even how we connect to people is no longer limited to words and we can now easily express ourselves in more ways and to a wider audience with lesser efforts.
One of the primary issues here is that for Chinese women, there is a much stronger emphasis on getting married early. China is relatively new to the whole modern-stable-globalized-internet still working on that last one, really country thing, and when your culture is over 4, years in the making, old habits die hard. That's because her grandparents' and possibly depending on where in China she is from her parents still value marital stability above all else in their time, given the instability and volatility of their eras.
As you may expect, dating is a little bit different in China than it is in most Western countries. The basics are the same—people are people everywhere—but there are still a few differences regarding culture and social cues to note. They simply have too much work to do.
Your knowledge concerning Chinese dating culture will make or break your search for a Chinese companion. Knowing how to navigate your way through the basic rules will save you some trouble and help you get to the good stuff. All of you in search of a Chinese beauty are in luck.
Source: miyvars. Keep in mind that these are all generalities, only based on my personal experiences. As such, perhaps not everything I say in the following paragraphs will adhere to every person, Chinese or foreign. I welcome the input of our readers in the comments section below!
Dating should be easy. Basically it is the action of trying to meet someone who have the same interest as you and you are attracted to go forward with. But not all dating culture is the same.
March 27, pm Updated March 27, pm. Guo Yingguang has posted a viral video that captures just how tough the dating scene can be in China. The Shanghai Marriage Market is largely made up of Chinese parents seeking a suitable partner for their son or daughter. The market runs from pm every Saturday and Sunday and provides a chance for parents to talk to each other to see whether their respective children might be a match.