My girlfriend and I have been together for just about a year. Last week she told me her friend Carli is moving to the same city as us, after having left the country for a few years, and she seems excited to have Carli around. This would be fine, except my girlfriend and Carli used to date.
Anyway she told me about this one specific girl, and the things they did in the bedroom. Now for some reason this really disturbed me and it will come back to me and make me feel completely worthless and scared. Just imagining her doing these things with these other girls makes me sad and feel empty.
Five years ago, I went through a bi phase and used to sleep around with pretty much every one that came along, including other men. This changed when I fell in love with my new partner, who is everything to me. I recently met her parents and halfway through lunch realised that I had slept with her father.
Our contributor Dr. AlanK had some sage advice for a young male reader whose girlfriend recently discovered that she is bisexual :. She has discovered that an important piece of her erotic makeup involves women.
We exist. We weren't just waiting for you to come along and help us make up our minds. Please don't go down the pub and tell your mates you've "turned" a lesbian.
My family didn't get it and neither did the gay community. It's not news that sexual fluidity has been working its way into the mainstream. We all know the girl who experimented in college and then went back to guys, or the middle-aged woman who left her husband for some turquoise artisan in Taos named Deborah.
Dating a bisexual can be a really intimidating thing. Are they constantly checking out everyone? Will they eventually leave you when the realize what they actually want?
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I've only ever been with my boyfriend and one woman, so it was a big deal when I wrote down that I was bisexual on that form. At least for me; it was the first time I had identified myself in that way. A year or so later, when I got pregnant, we went back in to the doctor to confirm and after we had heard our baby's heartbeat for the first time, seen that it was a real being, that our lives were about to change, the nurse comes in to do my examination my boyfriend had left at this point and tells me in a sly voice, 'I guess we can cross the bisexual off your chart, can't we?