Are you tired of dating dudes who turn out to be total players? We all deserve to be happy and fulfilled in our personal relationships. Feel like you are perpetually suffering from a case of dating deja-vu?
Michelle Spencer is writer based in Los Angeles. You can find her on Twitter thermos and on Instagram at rockingirlie. When it comes to dating and relationships, you probably have a type.
Photo by Stocksy. Women always ask me, "Why do I keep dating jerks? Sounds like tough love, and maybe it is.
I'm pretty sure that, at this point, it's pretty safe to say we've all heard that the definition of insanity is doing the same things while expecting a different result. But I can't help but wonder how many of us apply this to our dating situations. Take this one woman I know.
You've just come back from a date feeling as though you're in a time warp. Does it all seem a little too familiar? You may be dating 'repeats.
For those that have dated the same person twice, they all have given me a variation of the following responses:. Those that have dated the same person twice LOVE using the below quote:. If you love something, why in the world would you let it go in the first place?
If you've ever come out of a bad relationship and decided you need to date someone different from your usual "type," you're not alone. However, new research by social psychologists at the University of Toronto U of T suggests that might be easier said than done. A study published today in Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences shows people often look for love with the same type of person over and over again.
It's easy to feel like the universe doesn't have your back when you're looking for "The One" and well, nothing's happening. You keep dating the same type of people who are all wrong for you. You keep dating people who don't want a serious relationship. Or, you just never happen to meet anyone who catches your interest romantically.
As the saying goes, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results. Maybe you find yourself dating multiple colleagues but not necessarily at the same time. Or, in my case, you have a thing for trouble-making finance dudes who go through romantic partners like they go through money.
There are no sure shot measures but surely there are a few ways that can help you to love the same person all over again with more intensity. They say that love happens only once. Yes, indeed it is true, love happens only once but it can happen again and again with the same person. As odd as it may sound, I loved a guy twice.